There is a garden in every childhood, an enchanted place where colors are brighter, the air softer, and the morning more fragrant than ever again.
~Elizabeth Lawrence
Between the morning rush to get dressed and out the door by 6:30; the chaotic dinners that feel like Hell’s Kitchen with a 2-year old Gordon Ramsey; a million post-it notes around the house reminding you to wash their naptime blanket for school over the weekend, only to forget it on Monday; the doctor’s appointments, the vet appointments, the potty training, the school cupcake baking, the laundry folding, the work traveling, the snack packing, the activity chauffeuring….between all that scheduled craziness that has become our norm, when do we find the time to make those Instagram-worthy memories with your children? You make the time.
Every child should be granted the opportunity to have a carefree childhood filled with magic and wonder. We know this going into our role as parents, and are hit with the gravity of that promise from the minute we hold that innocent being in our arms for the first time.
Rylan and I live a simplistic lifestyle, in a cozy farm-style townhouse in modest rural suburbia, with our two sweet dogs. The most magical part of Rylan’s week is hearing the familiar lullaby of the ice cream man’s truck chugging around the corner. His eyes light up like Christmas lights and he exclaims, “ICE TWEAM MAN!” over and over. His excitement is infectious, and I can feel my heart fill up with warm enthusiasm as he skips and hops around the yard yelling, “HOORAY!”
One day, we were driving to Rylan’s grandparents’ house and I happened to spot a little dual-sided shelf on the side of the road with a “FREE” sign taped onto it. I pulled the car over and snatched it up, with no idea what I could possibly use it for. When we got home that day, I took it out to the back deck where all my flowers and potting supplies were. Rylan eagerly picked up a garden trowel and a tin can of pansies and put them on the front ledge of the little shelf. A lightbulb went off in my head and I realized that this little shelf would be the perfect potting station for him and his newfound passion for horticulture. He takes such pride in arranging his shovels on the little ledge and watering his flowers now!
Ever since Rylan was a baby, we have nurtured his love for books (my mother is a retired elementary school librarian so that was no surprise). I wanted to make a cozy reading nook for him in his room, away from the chaos of the house—a place of his very own where he could immerse himself in fairytales and lands of dinosaurs. I ordered a kids tipi off of Amazon (can be upwards of $100, but they really can be used for years as your child grows) and slid his old crib mattress in there as a little couch. Rylan loves lounging in his little tipi, playing with toys or pulling out books. It was one of the best investments I ever made for his imagination.
Even though my background is in the Culinary Arts and I am always finding myself in the kitchen cooking, when I was a child I did not know the slightest thing about preparing food. Even my American Girls cookbook could not help my peanut butter cookies fromturning into molten pools on the baking sheet. Rylan is in the stage of his childhood where he is craving the ability to do things independently (with supervision, of course). He finds himself feeling frustrated watching me cook in the kitchen because he wants to be the one stirring the sauce or checking on the cakes. I started brainstorming ways that he would be able to help prepare his dinners without having to cut things or be exposed to direct heat. I tested an idea of using an unplugged crockpot and letting him add his ingredients one by one to make a slow-cooker chili for his grandparents. He had the time of his life plopping in meatballs and using the wooden spoon to stir his concoction! A few weeks later he asked to help me bake cookies. I pulled out our toaster oven (not preheated), and used the little baking tray. I formed the balls of dough and Rylan rolled them in sugar and assembled them on the tray. I took over putting the tray in the toaster oven and setting the temperature, but it was the perfect little size for him to be able to see through the glass without endangering himself near a huge oven.
We as parents are doing the absolute best that we can at any given point in time. It’s so easy to compare ourselves to other parents who can afford the elaborate vacations and houses full of electronics, and that is amazing that they are able to have those luxuries! But for a lot of us, dusting off the old camping tent and swimming in the lake may be the yearly family vacation. My fondest memories in life were made around a campfire, with the stars shining through holes in the sky, listening to the chorus of bugs and birds and running water. (That doesn’t mean that our family vacations to Disney World as a child weren’t the most amazing thing ever!!!!) The trick is not in how much money you spend or what you are doing, but in how you personally can find the magic and wonderment in every little thing. If we keep waiting for huge things to happen to make our lives memorable, we will be waiting forever. The beauty is in those little moments, some that happen every day, some that may be out of the ordinary. I will never stop trying to make Rylan’s life as special as possible.
Inexpensive Summer Ideas for Toddlers:
1. Wood Pallet Garden
2. Outdoor Potting Area
3. Plant flowers in old plastic dump trucks and boats (drill draining hole)
4. Reading Nook (use a tent, tipi or blanket fort, string lights, pillows, etc)
5. Outdoor fort for space under the deck (plant shrubs as a border/fence and fill area with sand, toys, small hammock)
6. Learn to cook using unplugged crockpot/toaster oven (parental supervision)
7. Hang a plastic shoe rack inside a pantry door to organize daily snacks, so toddlers can pick out what they’d like to eat
8. Fill an old picnic basket with plastic foods, blanket and camping plates
9. Go camping in the backyard/deck
10. Write a few different day-trip scenarios on popsicle sticks or glue a picture at one end of each and let toddler choose where they’d like to go on their adventure day!
11. Find a local festival (Harry Potter festival, Fairy Festival, etc.) and go to your local thrift store and you and your toddler put together an awesome costume to help their imagination come to life!
Between the morning rush to get dressed and out the door by 6:30; the chaotic dinners that feel like Hell’s Kitchen with a 2-year old Gordon Ramsey; a million post-it notes around the house reminding you to wash their naptime blanket for school over the weekend, only to forget it on Monday; the doctor’s appointments, the vet appointments, the potty training, the school cupcake baking, the laundry folding, the work traveling, the snack packing, the activity chauffeuring….between all that scheduled craziness that has become our norm, when do we find the time to make those Instagram-worthy memories with your children? You make the time.
Every child should be granted the opportunity to have a carefree childhood filled with magic and wonder. We know this going into our role as parents, and are hit with the gravity of that promise from the minute we hold that innocent being in our arms for the first time.
Rylan and I live a simplistic lifestyle, in a cozy farm-style townhouse in modest rural suburbia, with our two sweet dogs. The most magical part of Rylan’s week is hearing the familiar lullaby of the ice cream man’s truck chugging around the corner. His eyes light up like Christmas lights and he exclaims, “ICE TWEAM MAN!” over and over. His excitement is infectious, and I can feel my heart fill up with warm enthusiasm as he skips and hops around the yard yelling, “HOORAY!”
One day, we were driving to Rylan’s grandparents’ house and I happened to spot a little dual-sided shelf on the side of the road with a “FREE” sign taped onto it. I pulled the car over and snatched it up, with no idea what I could possibly use it for. When we got home that day, I took it out to the back deck where all my flowers and potting supplies were. Rylan eagerly picked up a garden trowel and a tin can of pansies and put them on the front ledge of the little shelf. A lightbulb went off in my head and I realized that this little shelf would be the perfect potting station for him and his newfound passion for horticulture. He takes such pride in arranging his shovels on the little ledge and watering his flowers now!
Ever since Rylan was a baby, we have nurtured his love for books (my mother is a retired elementary school librarian so that was no surprise). I wanted to make a cozy reading nook for him in his room, away from the chaos of the house—a place of his very own where he could immerse himself in fairytales and lands of dinosaurs. I ordered a kids tipi off of Amazon (can be upwards of $100, but they really can be used for years as your child grows) and slid his old crib mattress in there as a little couch. Rylan loves lounging in his little tipi, playing with toys or pulling out books. It was one of the best investments I ever made for his imagination.
Even though my background is in the Culinary Arts and I am always finding myself in the kitchen cooking, when I was a child I did not know the slightest thing about preparing food. Even my American Girls cookbook could not help my peanut butter cookies fromturning into molten pools on the baking sheet. Rylan is in the stage of his childhood where he is craving the ability to do things independently (with supervision, of course). He finds himself feeling frustrated watching me cook in the kitchen because he wants to be the one stirring the sauce or checking on the cakes. I started brainstorming ways that he would be able to help prepare his dinners without having to cut things or be exposed to direct heat. I tested an idea of using an unplugged crockpot and letting him add his ingredients one by one to make a slow-cooker chili for his grandparents. He had the time of his life plopping in meatballs and using the wooden spoon to stir his concoction! A few weeks later he asked to help me bake cookies. I pulled out our toaster oven (not preheated), and used the little baking tray. I formed the balls of dough and Rylan rolled them in sugar and assembled them on the tray. I took over putting the tray in the toaster oven and setting the temperature, but it was the perfect little size for him to be able to see through the glass without endangering himself near a huge oven.
We as parents are doing the absolute best that we can at any given point in time. It’s so easy to compare ourselves to other parents who can afford the elaborate vacations and houses full of electronics, and that is amazing that they are able to have those luxuries! But for a lot of us, dusting off the old camping tent and swimming in the lake may be the yearly family vacation. My fondest memories in life were made around a campfire, with the stars shining through holes in the sky, listening to the chorus of bugs and birds and running water. (That doesn’t mean that our family vacations to Disney World as a child weren’t the most amazing thing ever!!!!) The trick is not in how much money you spend or what you are doing, but in how you personally can find the magic and wonderment in every little thing. If we keep waiting for huge things to happen to make our lives memorable, we will be waiting forever. The beauty is in those little moments, some that happen every day, some that may be out of the ordinary. I will never stop trying to make Rylan’s life as special as possible.
Inexpensive Summer Ideas for Toddlers:
1. Wood Pallet Garden
2. Outdoor Potting Area
3. Plant flowers in old plastic dump trucks and boats (drill draining hole)4. Reading Nook (use a tent, tipi or blanket fort, string lights, pillows, etc)
5. Outdoor fort for space under the deck (plant shrubs as a border/fence and fill area with sand, toys, small hammock)
6. Learn to cook using unplugged crockpot/toaster oven (parental supervision)
7. Hang a plastic shoe rack inside a pantry door to organize daily snacks, so toddlers can pick out what they’d like to eat
8. Fill an old picnic basket with plastic foods, blanket and camping plates
9. Go camping in the backyard/deck
10. Write a few different day-trip scenarios on popsicle sticks or glue a picture at one end of each and let toddler choose where they’d like to go on their adventure day!
11. Find a local festival (Harry Potter festival, Fairy Festival, etc.) and go to your local thrift store and you and your toddler put together an awesome costume to help their imagination come to life!
12. Let your toddler pretend to be a photographer and learn to capture all those magical moments by giving them an old camera
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